Monday, December 19, 2011

The Reason You Shout When Annoyed

No comments :
A professor of psychology was teaching about mind, attitude, behaviour and mood. Suddenly, he stopped to ask; "Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?"

The students thought for a while. Then, one of them said "Because we lose our calm, we shout for that".

"But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft
voice?", asked the professor. The students returned some other answers but none satisfied the professor.

Finally he explained, "When two persons are angry at each other, their hearts psychologically distance themselves. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance.

Then the professor asked, "What happens when two persons fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are psychologically very close. The distance between them is very small. The professor continued, "When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they even get closer to each other in their love.
Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and their is a communication.

So, next time you shout to a loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person's heart.

Dont forget to share this post with your friends on facebook

No comments :

Post a Comment